Please join us for our Teddy Bear Tea, hosted by Raelene Qualls. Everyone, please bring new Teddy Bears which will be given to the Coachella Mission. We will enjoy good food, good friends, and fellowship.
December 10th from 12 noon until 4 pm.
Drop by anytime, bring your family and friends and lots of teddy bears.
Raelene Quails 80173 Royal Birkdale Drive, Indio, CA 92201 760 485-0887
I hope everyone is having a good summer and staying cool. It has been a busy year for the Chapter as we have had some interruptions early in the year due to COVID, we have had several initiations and affiliations, we welcomed Desert Valley Chapter in a consolidation, and we have actively participated in the All Members Instructionals.
Welcome to our new members.
Please join me in welcoming our new members. We are excited to have you and to get to know you better. In April we initiated Betty Kern and Tracey Hildebrand-Helmy in a beautiful ceremony. We have also affiliated Sandra Curtis from Escondido and Jean Young from Traverse City, Michigan. If you join us at a meeting and see a new face, please take a moment to introduce yourself.
Milestones
Wishing Vivian Neal a very happy 100th Birthday! We are congratulating Tricia Bethel-Sookhoo and PK Michalski on the 25th anniversary of their initiation.
Dues
Dues are due January 1 of each year. If you have not yet paid your dues for 2022, I have sent a notice to you. If you are struggling to pay your dues, please contact me, the Worthy Matron or Worthy Patron. We are happy to work with you in a confidential manner.
Please understand what your dues cover for 2022. The chapter pays $45.07 per member and if you are not a life sponsor of the home, we also pay $10.00 each for Home Assessment. The Per Capita typically goes up each year to cover the expenses of Grand Chapter, insurance, Scholarship and Benevolent funds along with the home maintenance program.
During the consolidation we had a very thoughtful discussion about dues. It is never an easy subject. It was presented to the consolidated chapter and the membership voted to have our dues for 2023 at $75.00 plus Home Assessment if you are not a Life Sponsor of the Home. Please start planning your budgets now.
If you are interested in a Life Membership for our chapter or Life Sponsorship for the Home, please either call me or email and I will be glad to give you the details.
Newsletter
We are now up to over 150 members. Each newsletter costs about $1 to print and mail out. If you are receiving this in print, please call or email me if you would be willing to receive this by email. Cvsecretary360@gmail.com
Happenings
If you are receiving this by email, I will attach the flyers for these events, otherwise, please see www.oescal.org for the flyer. Please also RSVP to allow the organizers to have enough seats and refreshments.
-Aug 3 Reception Marilyn Mahaffey Gr Rep Virginia, Ontario
-Aug 6 Reception Catie McQuarter DGM Dist 35 and Will McQuarter Gr. Rep Missouri Riverside
-Aug 12 OV Dist 38 & 39 El Cajon
-Aug13 Reception Gr Ruth, Norwalk Masonic Center
-Aug 14 Reception Gr Esther, San Pedro
-Aug 25 Reception Brian Messenger Gr Rep Florida, Orange
-Aug 28 WGP Homecoming, South Pasadena
-Sept 3 Reception Julie Strahl Dist 36, Yucaipa San Gorgonio
-Sept 10 Masonic Family Picnic, Palm Desert Country Club
-Sept 13 Regular Meeting, Potluck at 6 pm
-Sept 17 WGM/WGP Reception, Stockton
-Sept 21 Revelation, Ventura
From the East
Summertime has come and we are having a good time getting together for light suppers. On July 15th 20 of us gathered at the Red Robin Restaurant for a NO HOST supper. Everyone had a good time getting together after a month-long vacation. We will again do this at Makarios Grill in Indio on the 12th of August. Again, a NO HOST supper. Just call me and let me know you will be there so we can have a special room for some more good times.
On Sept. 10th will be the Family Picnic with Desert Day Light Lodge in Palm Desert from 11:00 to 3:00 pm. Hamburgers and hot dogs will be supplied, and we are asking the members that do come to bring a small dish that you would bring to a picnic. Example: watermelon slices, potato salad, cut up veggies or whatever you would like to bring. Should be a lot fun and maybe meet many new people who might like to join Eastern Star.
On the 13th of Sept. we will once again have our regular meeting. This has always been a POTLUCK so bring one of your favorite dishes for all to enjoy. Tell us all about your summer and what you did. Our Dawn will be back from the boy scout camp which should be interesting to hear all about that.
Try to stay cool for the rest of the summer and we will see all who wish to attend the above get together and have some more “fun” times.
Jayne
I look forward to seeing everyone in September. The picnic should be fun as we are joining up with the Masons for this event. Meet old friends and new.
If I may be of service to you in any way, please contact me at 760-217-8397 or cvsecretary360@gmail.com
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Captain Jimmie Dale Woods, U.S. Coast Guard, (Ret.)
La Quinta, Ca- Jimmie Dale Woods, 85, passed away peacefully on July 22, 2020. He was in the company of his wife Jane.
Jim was born October 8, 1933, in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He was very proud of the fact that he was named after a Detective Series by the name Jimmie Dale/The Grey Seal, which is a fictional character who had a costume and mask for his secret identity, serving as a possible influence for characters later such as Zorro and The Shadow. The series was created by Frank L. Packard in 1914. His mother was an avid reader. She chose his name right since he loved to read books, especially his comic books. He would often read the adventures of Sherlock Holmes and Tarzan. You name it. He read it. Even his Math books would be read like novels.
At the age of 9, he had traveled all over the West with his parents as they would try to find work after The Depression. He had attended 14 different schools before the 4th grade. When they moved to Indio, California that is where his Father bought the first bakery in the Valley at that time. Something that he was so proud of. They stayed there until he graduated from High School.
In 1951 he graduated from Coachella Valley High School. He was accepted at both the Naval Academy and the USCG Academy. It is amazing that he had never been on a boat before he chose the career he did. But he never complained of seasickness, even though he would get it. He was Captain of the wrestling team and the undefeated football team. Upon graduation from the USCG Class of 1955, he was the recipient of the Math Award Regular Vets Association.
While stationed in Boston, in 1955 he met Jane Ruth Lewis of Uxbridge, Ma. On November 10, 1956, they were married in her hometown with a military wedding, complete with the military sword that his Grandmother had bought for him while at the Academy. His children followed after. Cindy was born in Everett, Ma, Jimmie Jr. was born in Wilmington, NC, and Timmie was born in New London, CT. His greatest joy in life was his family. In his spare time, he was also a Scout Master in San Juan PR for his sons. He was also involved in the Wrestling Federation of America since his sons were also wrestlers. I swear He never slept to get all these achievements done. The only achievement that wasn’t obtainable was that he couldn’t teach his own daughter Math. Just wasn’t in the cards.
He got his third chance in life at maintaining his youth and that was through his grandchildren. He had a beautiful smile and laugh- but you knew he was truly happy by the twinkle in his eyes. He served on the USCG Duane, USCG Mendoza, and Search and Rescue in San Juan, PR. Then to the USCG Academy for 19 years. A total of 35 years in the USCG. Many summers were spent sailing on the USCG Eagle. Other times he was invited to spend as visiting professor or attending seminars at Colleges and Universities around the country.
At the Academy, Jim served on the permanent commissioned teaching staff, he was the Head of the Mathematics Department until retiring on December 31, 1980, and earned his Masters from Trinity College in Hartford, then his Ph.D. from the University of Connecticut. He would say the degrees he worked the hardest on were the smallest and those he was most proud of. While stationed at the Academy he was project manager to bring back the remains of the 1st USCG Officer, Hopley Yeaton, to be permanently buried in the chapel yard. He also was behind getting the first computer programmed at the USCG in between getting his Masters.
He was always delighted to be involved with the Coast Guard, accepting a position of permanent professor. His comment was: “ My job is important, I am going to teach the Coast Guard Math” He was proud of that. He taught many, handing out awards at special ceremonies and especially keeping in touch with his many students that had gone on to become Admirals and even a Commandant of the USCG.
Along with reading and seeing on TV about all the rescue work that they still do. He was proud of the decision he had made to go into the USCG in 1951. Upon retiring he taught at the Hartford Graduate Center as a full professor until 1989, then 1990 he became Dean, School of Management of the Hartford Graduate Center. During his teaching career, he wrote many Math Books that were used for many years at both schools he taught at. In 1999 he was voted to become Professor Emeritus at the Coast Guard Academy.
His wish when he decided to retire was to go home to the Valley where he grew up. He had vacationed there part-time and then built his retirement home in 1985.
He was active in The Military Officers Association, Member of the La Quinta Golf Estates homeowners Association board for over 20 years, Masonic Lodge 476, Royal Arch and Order of the Eastern Star 360. Jimmie was also a priest of York in 29 Palms, Past Patron of OES #360 in 1996 & 2006; and OES Grand Representative to Colorado in 2006.
He loved working/ judging Artwork, selling tickets, and meeting a lot of his old High School friends at The Riverside County Fair and National Date Festival in Indio, California. This was his home.
His awards were many in his lifetime, but these are the ones that he was most proud of: National Science Faculty fellow 1964-1965, member of American Statistical Association, American Mathematics Association, Operations Research Society Quality Control, Phi Kappa Phi. Listed in Who’s Who in America in the East.
He is survived by the love of his life, his wife of 63 years, 8 months, 12 days, (23265 days), Jane. His favorite quote to her was: “Grow old along with me! The best is yet to be…” A man of his words he always was, and he always kept his promise to her during their time together. His children: Cindy Bonneau of Savannah, Ga. Jimmie Woods Jr. (Anne) of Avon, Ct. Grandchildren: Tiffany, Philip, and Christopher Bonneau (Stephanie); Molly and Erica Woods. Great Granddaughters: Alanna and Bailey Bonneau, and a sister Agatha Shryack (Carl) from Colorado Springs, CO. Jimmie is predeceased by his parents, Robert Henry and Edith (Boyle) Woods; younger brother Robert Henry Woods, Jr., and his son Timmie Alan Woods. Interment of ashes will be at Riverside National Cemetery, Riverside, Ca. with full military honors on September 8th, 2020.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that you reach out to someone who is also experiencing the long road of Alzheimer’s to show them comfort and support. And remind them how much they are loved and how important they are and were.
Open a book of adventures to the young- help them with their studies if they aren’t doing well in school-turn on an old-time movie- or just play Hansel and Gretel. But remember to love, laugh, and just enjoy your life! For we are all the teachers of the future. A forever we don’t have but a piece of us we will always leave with whoever we may teach along the way.
“You should be something you are proud of, and you know is worth living for. Find a goal in life and spend your time fighting for it, but also know that goals can change at any moment, so be ready to work at it for a lifetime.” -Jimmie Woods (Told to the Students of Coachella Valley High School for their newspaper.)
Remembering Jimmie Woods 1933 – 2020 A post from Jimmie’s daughter, Cindy.
My Dad, who was a baker’s son, got accepted both at the Naval Academy and the USCG Academy. The funny thing about it they both dealt with boats and my Dad had never been on a boat. He went by Greyhound from out west to his new destination New London, Ct. Class of 1955. Upon graduation he bought a new Chevy- there is a rule there because of him that no upper-classmen will profit from underclassmen. Seems my Dad would do grinder/ pizza runs for them. Reason for his new car.
We lived in Boston, NC, San Juan PR, and then lived in Mystic/Stonington for the rest of his career. Of course in the end he went back home to California. He ended up Head of the Math Department at the USCG Academy until he retired.
He loved to teach Math – since accepting his role, he would never be an Admiral. This leads to me- he couldn’t fully understand why he could teach so many and not his own daughter. Yes, I barely passed Math. I remember one summer when I was little – my Dad went away for most of the summer- he went to Europe to be on the Eagle with the cadets. To this day, when a sailboat is out to sea I can smell the ropes, and reminds me of that feeling of Dad is finally home.
Many a summer was going out west to visit his parents – even his grandparents. I hated the long trips and I should have appreciated them far more than I did. You name it, I saw it – even the Kellogg plant riots in Chicago in the 60s we had to avoid just to get back home.
My Dad loved his math books and would read them like novels-but then again he loved Tarzan- Sherlock Holmes, etc But it was funny, come payday we would always stop at the drug store in Groton- he was buying comic books for us, but the deal was he had to read them first. I always chose Archie. He loved his movies, could do one-hand pushups, wrestling, football player he was, loved Boy Scouts even was a leader in San Juan and later in Connecticut. You name it, he did it.
Last year I flew out to spend some time with my parents. My Dad had been in a nursing home since February.
The minute I walked in the Director said to me he will probably not recognize me, he never talks about his family. I was prepared. I saw him watching old-time movies, and I whispered in his ear “Hello, Handsome..” and stepped in front of him. He looked at me and said, “ And who are you?” With a smile on his face. Saying to myself, Please God don’t do this to me, I have come so far. I stood as straight as I could, shoulders back, and said “ I am your daughter.”( sounding like Darth Vader) He looked at me, and said “Cindy, I thought I would never see you again.” “I’m here.” I said, “I wanted to spend my birthday with you.” He goes “August 18th?”, I cried and so did he. My Mom goes to my Dad I told you I had a surprise for you.
What I take away from my Dad is that he loved my Mom with all his heart for 63 1/2 years. But he also loved his children/grandchildren just as much. Including numerous Cats and Westies my Mom and Dad had. As well as his extended family, his Mom and Dad, his brother Bobby and his sister, Agatha. The only time my Mom saw my Dad cry is when he lost both his parents. So I too can cry a little.
I had an amazing Dad, with a twinkle in his eyes when he smiled and his laugh was always music to my ears.
I could go on and on about the wonderful stories I have of him. For some reason, I keep referring to him as my real-life Peter Pan. With a voice like Sean Connery when he would give speeches. To this day, I remember asking Timmie when did Dad start sounding like Sean Connery, did I miss something? Maybe it was the kilt he was wearing. All I remember from that day was laughing so much with my brother because he too would then start sounding like Sean. Laughter, it’s what will get me by. That he taught me well.
My last words to my Dad, July 20, 2020 was: “I love you. You are the Best Dad.” He mumbled something back, he had had a stroke but I know in my heart he said I love you too, because he always did, that I could always count on.
When I was in the nursing home with my Dad this guy was playing this song. I lost it. See I grew up with the movie “Wizard of Oz” it was always watched! I never had a tissue when I needed it. I flew into Savannah, and some guy was playing the same song on a grand piano they have in the airport. I go “You have to be kidding!”
So it seems perfect that I too end with this: “Somewhere over the Rainbow…..”